| Six days before my Dad remarried Granddad died. Unexpected. Undiscussed. A mystery case of pancreatitis. He lingered for two days on life support. Time for the family to return from overseas. Then they let him go. I was not there so it was Dad who told me about my uncle’s reaction. How he sat quiet through it all, until, when the heart monitor died, 35 years of guarded sentiment escaped too late. “I never told him I loved him.” Dad and I did not look at each other as he told me this |