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Hey Rebecca, Im Rebecca too but to keep it from being confusing you can just do what everyone else does and call me Ember. I'll answer to just about anything, just don't call me Becky. <shudders>

I think a lot of us find our way here then find our way out, only to find our way back again. This is actually my third WDC account LOL. Unlike everyone else apparently, I never expected to come back and when they sent out the notice telling me they were about to delete my account, I let them. Only I always ended up crawling back a few weeks later.

You might want to talk to a lawyer about your husband having to adopt your daughter. My mother use to work in social work. Not all states have the same rules but I know in many, all you need is a paternity test to get a fathers name on the childs birth certificate. It's not nearly as expensive as adoption, though it stil isn't cheap either. Basicly he has to petition the court to have his parental rights established and have himself listed as the biological father. It would at least be worth checking into.

My husband and I got married young, like you. It's not an easy path you have chosen but if you work really hard at it, and never give up on him no matter how stupid he is being, and yes they all get stupid at some point, You might just make it to where I am now. Clanbear and I will have our 20th wedding anniversary in two days. Gods, now I feel old. Okay, Im going to go write something and try to cheer myself up. LOL