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Aug 13, 2007 at 9:40am
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(5x)Re: OT: POV gender and reader's eroticism
by A Non-Existent User
Ok, time to sound off on this!

Dusk, not sure if you are refering to me or not, not sure if we had this conversation. But I would love to spend one day as a woman, I wouldn't leave the house, i would spend all day playing with myself! *Bigsmile* Just like if I could like my balls like a dog, i would! Find me a man who wouldn't and I will show you a liar. Of course if men could lick their own balls the human race would have died out long ago. *Smile* And for those that are asking, yes I am straight. Ijust like striving to understand women. When I do I am sure a group of women will kidnap me and keep me out of the general population so I don't give away all of their secretes. *Bigsmile*

Tim - For me I like both POV. I try tend to write for the scene and the story. If the scene works better from a woman's POV then I continue the sex scene with her POV but if the opposite happens that I stay with it. I kind of let the stoy dictate the POV in the sex scenes and in the non-sex scenes for that matter, what ever works to further the storyline along.

Personally I find writing in the woman's POV is more challenging but that is fun for me, a challenge. My advice is take on the challenge and try and write something from a woman's POV.

Also, Dusk is right, us guys are much harder and to the point. And sometimes that just gets old. Maybe I am just in touch with my feminie side but I like it mixed up. It is like South Park the movie, after 30 minutes of hearing the f-word I was numb to it. Likewise, if ever sex scene I read is hard core, male POV then I will be numb to it, and not "enjoy" it as much. Also, to me erotica isn't just hard core wham bam thank you ma'am, that is Penthouse letters. *Bigsmile*

Wow I had a ton to say on this subject, maybe because POV is something i struggle with so much, switching without knowing it. So I think about it a lot.


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OT: POV gender and reader's eroticism · 08-11-07 2:42pm
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Re: OT: POV gender and reader's eroticism · 08-11-07 9:41pm
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